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Lyn Boxall's avatar

Many years ago some friends of mine figured out that the fence between their property and the neighbour's property was about 30 cm further into their (my friends') property than it should be. But it was clearly an error - or perhaps some cheating - that had happened many years prior to them buying their property. They decided that a dispute was pointless - that it was better to be nice to their neighbours because the extra 30 cm didn't really make any difference to them.

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Malcolm Fowler's avatar

Our Our current neighbours and we have been for many years on the most cordial of terms for decades now BUT:

1. Within days of their arrival a point of friction had arisen over what we believed was a party wall/fence and they a party wall and mega trouble was brewing about what to do with that crumbling construction.

A property solicitor specialist and friend from nearby gave advice to me favouring our position but at the same time echoing my own advice to ANY householder:

The first rule of house occupancy: NEVER fall out with a neighbour.

The second rule: No, really :never fall out with a neighbour.

The third rule: Look at me when I’m talking to you: NEVER fall out with a neighbour.

That consummate mediator, our twin daughter Corinne smoothed it all over FAR more skilfully than I would have done.

After all on any proposed sale of the instant property in answer to the inevitable question about neighbour disputes…….?

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